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家长还是学校:谁能领走《小高兴》

  家长还是学校:谁能领走《小高兴》

家长还是学校:谁能领走《小快乐》

体球网  《XIAOGAOXING》ZHONG,YOUGUOZIFANSHIYANDEJIYANGYANG

  LUYINGONGXIE《XIAOGAOXING》SHI,HUANGLEITITAQILEZHEIGESHUMINGJIANJUMING。HUANGLEIDEBIAOSHUSHI:ZHONGGUOJIATINGDEGAOXINGLAIZI“AOZHE”,GUOYIGUANJIUHUANXIYIXIA——ZHONGKAOSUANGUOLEGEXIAOGUAN,GAOKAOJIUGUOLEGEDAGUAN。LUYINGONGMIBUDAO:“XIAOGAOXING”DUIYINGDESHI“DAYIYU”,ZHEIGEYIYULAIZIMEIGEJIATINGDEJINHOU——HAIZI。JIRANXIANSHIYIJINGZHEIBANYIYU,SHUHEJUJIUBIEDIEDIEBUXIU,BUFANGCHUSHIYIGEFAZILUN,ZENYANGZAIYIYUZHONGZHAODAOYIDIANDIANGAOXING。

体球网  YUSHI,RENMENKANJIANLEXIAOSHUO《XIAOGAOXING》HEJINLAIKAIBODETONGMINGDIANSHIJU。“HEWEIZHENZHENGDEXIAOGAOXING?SHIDUIQINZIGUANXIDELEWU、DUIHAIZITUIBIANDEFANGKAISHOU,XIAOGAOXINGSHIJISHANGSHIXINDIDEYIFENWENROU,SHIWENROUDAIJIRENMENDEGAOXING。”LUYINGONGSHUO。

  高三是亲子冲突最激烈的环节

  LUYINGONGYIQIANXIEDEDUOSHIZHICHANG、DACHENGSHIQINGNIAN,《XIAOLIBIE》ZOUHONGHOU,TATURANDUOLEXUDUOZHONGXUESHENGDUZHE。HAIZIMENHENTONGYIGENTAGOUTONGJIAOLIU,HAIJITAMINGTIZUOWEN,“SHUSHUNIZAIXIEYIGELANQIUTICAIDE”,BINGQIEFANFUZHUZHONG“YIDINGYAOREXUE”。ERZHEIQUNHAIZIDOUKUAIYAOBAOMINGCANJIANEIDIHAIZIZUIDADETUANTI“REXUEXINGDONG”——GAOKAO。

  ZUOLEDAPICAIFANGHOU,LUYINGONGFAXIAN,XUDUORENBUSHUXIZENMEZUOFUMU,“HAIZIRICHANGSHITIANSHI,YIDANZUOZUOYEJIUSHITIANDI”。JUZHONGHAIQINGSHIYANDETONGWENJIEXUNERZINEIYIDUAN,XUDUORENSIHUKANJIANLEZIJIHE“WOMABENMA”,“SHIJISHANGHAIZISHIBAOBEI,DANZAINEIYIKE,RENSHIKONG,WANGLEZENMEZUOFUMU。”

  《小高兴》要处置的是亲子难题,而高三正是亲子冲突最激烈的环节。“高三后来,孩子就要出门上大学,这是他们出走家长之前最后相依的环节。按理说这是挺难得的時间段,可偏要碰上了压力极大的高考,这必定碰撞出新奇的现象,现象背后是应用价值观。”鲁引弓说。

  在采访全历程中,鲁引弓接触到许多产生在高三的悲喜——有的家长过于担心孩子,在学校门口租个房屋,全职陪孩子上学。孩子感到阿姨盯得太紧,什么都替他拿主意,刚开始猜疑自我应用价值,一度严重到一个月都不跟阿姨說話。阿姨焦虑不安,配了治焦虑症的药,但又不敢给孩子吃,就让老公先试药。

  LUYINGONGFAXIAN,HAIZIHEJIAZHANGDEFENQI,YIGEHEXINDIANSHIDUIXINGFUDEGAINIAN——JINRIXINGFUHEJINHOUXINGFUNEIGEGENGZHONGYAO。JIAZHANGSHUO,XIANZAINIYAOKUSHANGXUE,KAOSHANGDAXUEHOUSUIYIWAN,SIHUQUANBUDEHAORIZIDOUZAITUIKAIDAXUEZHEISHANMENYIHOU。ERHAIZIGANDAOXINGFUDEYOUBILI,JINRIDEXINGFUDOUMEIYOU,ZENMEQUEBAOJINHOU。

  ZHIYOU,RANGLUYINGONGYIWAIDESHI,《XIAOGAOXING》DEBUSHAOGUANZHONGSHIDAXUESHENG。TAMENYIJINGYOULEGAOKAOZHEIDAOKAN,KANZHEIBUJUSHI,HUOXUSHIZHUIYIQILEZIJIDANGCHUDEJINGLI,HUOXUSHILIJIAHOUZAIHUITOULUKAN,GANCHUDAOLEQINQINGDEKEGUI。

  淹没在作业堆里的“精神留守儿童”

体球网  DONGBIXIE《XIAOGAOXING》QIAN,LUYINGONGXIANHUALESANSIGEYUESHIJIAN,ZOUFANGLESHIJISUOXUEXIAO,YOUDEXUEXIAOHAIJITASHELEYIJIANBANGONGSHI,LAOSHIXUESHENGYIYOUKONGJIUAIZHAOTALIAO。CHENGNIANRENXIAOHAIDELIANSHANGDOUYOUMIHUOHEYIYU,“XUEZHA”YIYU,“XUEBA”YEYIYU,XUESHENGYIYU,LAOSHIYEYIYU。

  《XIAOGAOXING》DIYIJI,JIYANGYANGKAIZHEHONGSEHAOCHEJINXUEXIAODEQINGJIE,LAIFAYUANHANGZHOUYISUOZHONGXUEDEZHENSHIGUSHI。“DANGNIANGUANJIAOZHURENXIANGQUGUAN,MEIGUANXIXINLITURANGEDENGYIXIA,ZENMEGUAN?JICHUSHUOFASHI,‘XUEXIAOSHISHANGXUEDEDIFANG,BUSHIXUANFUDEDIFANG’。MEIGUANXIPINFUCHAJUZAISHENGJIZHONGJIUNENGKANDAO,HERURANGHAIZIXINFUNEIFU?”LUYINGONGSHUO。

体球网  TANDAOZHONGXUEHUANJIEDETUXIANNANTI,LAOSHIGAOSULUYINGONG,XIANZAIWOMENTANLUN“HANMENNANZAICHUGUIZI”,HANMENBUJINSHICAIFUDIANPING,FUMUDESHIXIAN、WENHUAYISHUJIZAN,DOUJIANGYINGXIANGHAIZIJINHOUDEQUSHE。

  YIGEZHENSHIDEGUSHISHI,MOUMINGPAIDAXUEDAOYISUOZHONGXUETIZAOZHAOSHENG,LAOSHIXUANLEJIGEXUEXIBUCUODEXUESHENGQUKAOTI。KAOTIZHIQIANXUYAOZAIWANGSHANGBAOMING,BAOMINGJIEZHIQIANLIANGGEXIAOSHI,LAOSHIFAXIAN,YIGEXUESHENGMEIYOUBAOMING——ZHEIWEIXUESHENGJIAZHANGSHINONGMIN,GENBENBUSHUXIHERUSHIJICAOZUO。

体球网  YOUDE“XINXIHANMEN”SHILIXINGXINGDE,YOUDEZESHIZHUGUANDE——JIAZHANGHEHAIZIZHIJIANQUEFAGOUTONGJIAOLIU,MEIYOUSHENDUCANYUHAIZIDETUIBIAN,HULVELELAIZIHAIZIDEXINXI,ZAI《XIAOGAOXING》ZHONGDEDIANXINGXINGJIUSHIJIHUOSHENGYIJIA。JIAZHANGMIAOSHIHAIZIDEXINLINGQUANQIU,HAIZIGANDAO,NIZHIGUANXINWODEFENSHU。CENGJINGYOUHAIZIDUILUYINGONGSHUO:“WOSHIYANMEIZAIZUOYEDUILIDEJINGSHENLIUSHOUERTONG。”

  家长的经验是不是跟得上孩子面临的時期

  LUYINGONGDESANBUQU《XIAOSHEDE》《XIAOLIBIE》《XIAOGAOXING》,FENBIEDUIYINGDESHIHAIZIDETONGNIAN、CHUZHONG、GAOZHONG。GONGTONGTEDIANSHI,JIAZHANGYIZHIHENYIYU,ERMEIYIHUANJIEDECHONGTUYOUYOUSUOBUTONGYANG。

  TONGNIANHUANJIE,ZUIDADECHONGTUSHIHAIZIDETONGXINHEJIAZHANG“BUKESHUZAIQIPAOXIAN”DEYIYU,YOUDEHAIZICONGYOUERYUANJIUGANGKAISHIBUKE,SHIDIAOLETONGNIAN;CHUZHONGHUANJIE,BUJIUTUIBIANQILAIDEQINGSHAONIAN,HECHENGJIPAIMINGDESHEHUIFENCENGCHUXINGFASHENGCHONGTU,JIAZHANGYIYU“YIBUMEIGENSHANG,ZAIYEGENBUSHANG”;GAOZHONGHUANJIE,HAIZIDESANGUANYIJINGXINGCHENG,QINGSHAONIANDEQIWANGZHUIQIUHECHENGRENRENSHIJIANJIEDEGONGLIMUDEJIUJIANGHUIFASHENGFENQI,CHONGTUYINCIGUANCHUANZHERENSHENGQUSHE,BIRU,DAXUEXUANSHENMEZHUANYE,DAXUEBIYEZHAOSHENMEGONGZUOZHONG。